Falling out with my father

Hi, october 2021 bride here.

in light of recent political events, my father exploded on me for having a differing opinion the other day in a manner that i thought was inappropriate and disproportionate. i tried my best not to escalate anything and to maintain a civilized tone, but i guess he wasn’t really looking for a pleasant discussion. not the first time this has happened either. back in march, he tried to manipulate me into changing my political activity because of his health (he’d just had heart surgery). i didn’t speak to him for about a week or so after. would’ve thought he learned from that. we’re not speaking again.
i feel conflicted. of course, i want my father at my wedding. but i worry about his anger issues and toxicity resurfacing with a vengeance later on in my life and i don’t want my future husband and future children to suffer through that. currently, i wouldn’t trust him to be alone with my children.