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Emma
Dropped from my best friend's bridal party...
Emma, on March 18, 2023 at 11:28 PM

My best friend for over 8 years dropped me from her bridal party because I was unable to attend her dinner rehearsal due to graduate school (doctorate degree) schedule. Background: we do not live in...

Paige, Mar 20, 2023 15 447
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Anyone Marrying the first person they had a real relationship with? Any worries?
Hilary, on August 13, 2022 at 4:12 PM

I’m getting married in 18 days and some worries are coming to my mind. I’m 26 and my fiancé is 40. I’ve dated other guys before. I had a first boyfriend in high school and then I dated my first love...

Robert, Mar 20, 2023 11 564
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Bridesmaid Had To Ditch
Alyssa, on March 18, 2023 at 5:08 PM

One of my bridesmaids just texted and said she’s not only unable to be in my wedding, but can’t attend the wedding or any of the events (bachelorette, bridal party, etc) She is a childhood friend of...

CM, Mar 19, 2023 13 224
Ngan
My fiancé is getting tired of my cultured/traditional family
Ngan, on March 18, 2023 at 1:38 PM

So my fiancé and I are getting married soon. I am coming from a very traditional family, we’re Vietnamese. He’s of course very freely living his own life the way he wants. He has distanced himself...

Ngan, Mar 19, 2023 3 218 1
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No bridesmaids nor groomsmen
Laura, on March 15, 2023 at 8:16 PM

Hi everyone, I am strongly considering not having any bridesmaids in my wedding just because I want it to be traditional like the old times only me with my parents walking down the aisle. My fiancé...

Laura, Mar 18, 2023 8 137
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Did she lie?
Twinsiesmum, on August 14, 2022 at 10:43 AM

So I had an outing planned with all of my bridesmaids. Everyone said they were coming. The day of one of my bridesmaids said she couldn’t come because her whole family was sick. Later on I see her...

Richadwilliam, Mar 18, 2023 19 411
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Parents Against Moving In Before Wedding
Yg4189, on January 10, 2019 at 7:37 PM

Hello everyone, I'm lost on how to go about this. So my fiance bought a house for us to live in a few months ago and he's all settled in. I still live with my parents and they've always been against...

Analia, Mar 16, 2023 26 11,907 2
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I’m pregnant and alone planning my wedding
Melinda, on March 9, 2023 at 6:10 PM

So I’ve been engaged for over a year. When I got engaged the people I once considered friends all kinda just distanced themselves for me. My life was changing and I guess they couldn’t figure out how...

Laura, Mar 15, 2023 6 268
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Bridesmaids and Groomsmen Dilemma! Help Please!
Marnelli, on March 14, 2023 at 7:04 PM

This is a bit problem because my wedding tradition and my Husband's wedding tradition is way different and it's confusing. me and him are having issues because I wanted to my elder brother as the best...

Marnelli, Mar 15, 2023 6 161
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Maid of honor drama
Jessica, on March 13, 2023 at 7:42 PM

Hello, coming on here to get un biased opinions. I have my best friend of 8 years who is taking the role of maid of honor. I’m very diss appointed as she has been picking fights with my other...

Jessica, Mar 14, 2023 16 389
Nicole
Grooms side of the family
Nicole, on March 8, 2023 at 5:11 PM

So I have been having a difficult time with the wedding planning considering I am the only one doing it. The grooms side of the family are not invovled at all. I do not expect any money from them but...

Nicole, Mar 13, 2023 14 400
Elissabeth
Family wants me to attend the wedding of a cousin who didn't attend mine
Elissabeth, on March 10, 2023 at 9:40 AM

We finally got married last year after a rew reschedules due to lockdowns, family deaths, venue remodel, etc. When we finally got our date set, we sent out change the dates and called and messaged...

Taylor, Mar 11, 2023 6 488
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Officiant
Stacey, on March 10, 2023 at 6:46 AM

My husband was previously an officiant in a wedding for two of his closest friends and I'm concerned it has no damaged their relationship. My husband is upset because he spent a ton of time and money...

CM, Mar 10, 2023 2 165
Candace
Bridesmaid frustration
Candace, on March 6, 2023 at 2:50 PM

I'm writing this as more of a vent. I have 7 bridesmaids, 3 sisters & 4 friends. Some of my choices and some are becoming frustrating. By no means do I think the next 5 months should be ONLY about...

Teyeb88826, Mar 9, 2023 1 170 1
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Mom does not like fiance
Janica, on March 7, 2023 at 4:18 AM

My mom has never liked my fiance they have a bad past when my fiance was trying to help me out but my mom gets irritated or frustrated about my fiance like we aren't in speaking terms at the moment...

Griswold, Mar 8, 2023 3 277 1
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Cousins deliberating on the same date
Michelle, on March 6, 2023 at 8:41 PM

My cousin and I got engaged two weeks apart (pretty much the same time because my fiancé and I picked our date before he actually proposed (grey areas)). Her and I were congratulating each other,...

Erin, Mar 7, 2023 4 212
Candice
Wedding party
Candice, on February 16, 2023 at 10:58 AM

So I'm pretty sure I am not having bridesmaids or groomsmen. (Drama and hurt feelings) Just maid if honor and best man. Thing is we have select people that would be in the wedding party if we have one...

Veronica, Mar 7, 2023 8 193
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Devastated - not a Bridesmaid for my former moh
Chloe, on February 25, 2023 at 10:12 PM

So, not sure what I’m looking for exactly here, maybe just some advice or to get others’ perspectives on how the dealt with it/if they went through something similar. In short: my childhood best...

Kelly, Mar 6, 2023 14 1,132 1
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Difficult sister in law
Samantha, on March 6, 2023 at 3:05 AM

I kinda just want to vent and maybe get some advice. My FH proposed to me in 2021. Ever since then it seems his family, especially my sister in law, do not want to see us getting married. First with...

Courtney, Mar 6, 2023 3 264 1
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My perfect dress is making me face parental issues
Mimimushrooms, on March 15, 2022 at 4:36 AM

Disclaimer: I need to say this upfront but “Tell them it’s your day, not theirs!” and “You’re the one paying for it!” is not going to be the answer for me. It’s ignoring a lot of cultural background...

Michelle, Mar 6, 2023 10 409 3
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