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Blending familys can be a true joy, but there are tricky elements too. From merging households, to deciding where to spend the holidays, this is the place to give and get support on all things family.

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Soon2Bemarried
Were Your In-Laws Too Attached To Your SO?
Soon2Bemarried, on November 23, 2020 at 12:02 AM

When you began dating your SO, were their parents too attached to them? Did you get the (almost often very truthful but passive aggressive) comment about your SO "leaving the nest too soon"? How was...

Soon2Bemarried, Nov 24, 2020 15 253
Ari
Future in-law anxiety
Ari, on November 7, 2020 at 4:26 AM

I am having a hard time dealing with my fiancé’s family. He and I have have been together 2.5 years and everything has been great with his family up until April of this year. My fiancé and his family...

Ivory, Nov 24, 2020 13 593 1
Sarah
Advice on Holiday Drama
Sarah, on November 23, 2020 at 2:41 AM

With the holidays right around the corner, I am a total nervous wreck right now. Because of politics, my fiancé believes one side and my family believes the opposite side. Every time I have dinner...

Sarah, Nov 24, 2020 44 915
Michelle
Has marriage changed your relationship in some way?
Michelle, on November 22, 2020 at 10:21 PM

I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and we have been married almost a month now! I am not sure if anything has really changed but I do feel so happy to be married to him, to call him my husband, I...

Hannah, Nov 23, 2020 9 239
Yasmine
Love Language
Yasmine, on November 20, 2020 at 3:00 PM

Do you and your significant other have the same love language or are they different? Does it ever cause any problems between you too? My love language is Words of Affirmation followed by Quality time...

SLY, Nov 23, 2020 39 276
Cynthia
Sister in Law Ruining Wedding
Cynthia, on November 17, 2020 at 12:06 AM

Hi y’all- What to do about a super high anxiety sister-in-law (to be) who is pressuring my fiancé every single day to cancel our wedding? To be clear, we cancelled our “big” 150-person wedding and are...

Judith, Nov 22, 2020 19 565
Soon2Bemarried
To the Brides in Interracial/cultural Unions...quick Question
Soon2Bemarried, on November 12, 2020 at 8:38 PM

My fiancé and I have been doing blending of our families over the years, but more recently since our engagement. We are of different races and cultures. He speaks English and Spanish and myself just...

Clarissa, Nov 22, 2020 24 310
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Broke Bridesmaid
Courtney, on November 17, 2020 at 5:21 PM

I need some honest advice. One of my close friends asked me to be a bridesmaid in her upcoming wedding. I am so happy for her and honored that she’s asked me to join her side on her big day. However,...

Q, Nov 22, 2020 23 524
Laura
moh problems
Laura, on November 20, 2020 at 1:12 PM

I have been engaged for a little over a year we wanted to give ourselves plenty of time to plan. I picked my MOH very quickly which is my fiancé’s soon to be step mom. We had a good connection and she...

Kimberly, Nov 21, 2020 12 258
Lisa
How Did You Know They Were "The One"?
Lisa, on November 11, 2020 at 9:26 AM

Let's hear about the moment when you knew your significant other was The One! Was it a specific event or moment? Or did you just wake up and realize it one day? Did your significant other know first,...

Lisa, Nov 21, 2020 31 256
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Firing a bridesmaid who is a future sis-in-law
Emelyne, on November 13, 2020 at 11:27 PM

I am not sure how to put this so here it goes. My FH and I got engaged in January and have set a date for next December (2021). My FH younger brother( who is the best man at our wedding) started...

Judith, Nov 20, 2020 16 1,063
Mrs. Spring
Am i wrong? Daddy Issues
Mrs. Spring, on November 17, 2020 at 9:13 AM

I have a very complex relationship with my dad. He was amazing from birth to 18 and raised me but when he divorced my mom when I was at ubiversity he checked out mentally and emotionally from me....

Mrs. Spring, Nov 20, 2020 24 382 1
Katrina
fil is not onboard with our destination wedding
Katrina, on November 10, 2020 at 12:03 PM

We got engaged about a month ago and quickly decided to have a micro-wedding in Greece of October 2021. We socialized the idea with the family and then sent a google form out to help us nail down some...

Chelsea, Nov 20, 2020 25 673
J
My Mother is Taking Over!
Jessica, on November 18, 2020 at 7:27 PM

I am so sorry everyone, but I just need to vent. I originally planned a very low-key wedding with just a handful of guests, not so much as a result of Covid but more of the fact that both my fiancé...

Chelsea, Nov 20, 2020 15 342
Susan
Use Covid as an Excuse! (or It's ok to Stand Up for Yourself)
Susan, on November 19, 2020 at 7:27 AM

My wedding was supposed to be in May, and my dad strong armed me into inviting his best friend to the wedding, even though my fiance and I are paying for the wedding, not him. His best friend is...

Meghan, Nov 20, 2020 9 271
Erin
My Family Can’t Make It
Erin, on November 19, 2020 at 12:31 PM

I’m not really looking for advice or anything, i guess i just need an outlet to just say it. My FH and I are eloping next month, around Christmas. Originally, my parents and my brother were supposed...

Meghan, Nov 20, 2020 15 273
Mrs. Spring
Live life through two titles and not more?
Mrs. Spring, on November 13, 2020 at 5:57 AM

How much socializing is important to you and your (future) spouse? How much time do you two want to spend with each of your friends and family? I've noticed that some of my friends no longer make time...

Mrs. Spring, Nov 16, 2020 30 339
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Do your in-laws celebrate your birthday?
Emma, on September 10, 2019 at 12:43 PM

Hello, So yesterday was my birthday and It was wonderful but after the day was done I was a bit hurt by one thing. My husbands family makes a big deal out of birthdays, especially my father in law....

katie, Nov 16, 2020 19 5,745
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Holiday family merging
Emily, on November 11, 2020 at 1:43 PM

Anyone else struggling with merging two families together? My fiancé’s mom and sister like to do holidays at their house and my family is really big which definitely can’t fit in their house. (My...

Judith, Nov 15, 2020 19 1,326
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Probably overreacting but slightly annoyed by friend's repetitive question
Yvonne, on November 5, 2020 at 2:17 PM

****: I started going to a new church and one of the ladies in my small group was already engaged when I first met, but we slowly became friends and she last-minute decided to ask me to be a...

Yvonne, Nov 15, 2020 13 421
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