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Melissa
Grandmas who need to keep their mouth shut!!!
Melissa, on April 30, 2019 at 3:35 PM

Background: my grandma is a very opinionated person. If she doesn’t like something she will let you know about it. She also likes to make most situations about herself, for example, the weekend of my...

Sara, Apr 30, 2019 6 482
L
Boyfriend of 8 years to sister of the bride and bridesmaid not invited
Lauren, on April 9, 2018 at 5:44 PM

I saw a lot of the reverse of this question (as this forum is for brides) but I am truly dumbfounded by my sisters audacity. i have been dating my boyfriend for 8 years - some of my family is not...

karen, Apr 27, 2019 8 781
Jo
What nickname or pet name do you call your partner?
Jo, on February 26, 2018 at 8:05 AM

Sweetheart, honey, baby, boo, pumpkin, sugar, darling, cutie pie... What do you call your one and only? Photo by J'adore Love Photo and Cinema

Jo, Apr 25, 2019 81 1,559
Futuremrsm
i don't want to invite my cousin
Futuremrsm, on April 23, 2019 at 8:54 AM

So I have a family member that i don't like. My cousin is really selfish. Whenever she shows up to family events she usually just eats and leaves. Never brings other people presents to Christmas etc....

Courtney, Apr 23, 2019 15 983
M
Vietnamese and Chinese tea ceremony
Meg, on April 22, 2019 at 9:13 PM

I know of a mother that says if she comes to the tea ceremony it’s going to be bad luck for her son the groom so she wants to skip it. Now the brides side is saying the tea ceremony should be canceled...

Meg, Apr 22, 2019 2 563
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Living together before marriage?
Natalie, on April 20, 2019 at 2:19 AM

Are there any Christian brides out there? Most of this is to vent so I apologize before hand. My lease ends next month (end of May) and my wedding is the 1st week of July my plan was to move in with...

Nicole, Apr 22, 2019 29 1,436
Anna
Should we tell them the date?
Anna, on April 18, 2019 at 4:14 AM

Okay, before you judge me, please let me explain. My FH and i have mothers who are very controlling. They are the type of people who will be adding guest to our wedding without us knowing. They will...

Madison, Apr 19, 2019 13 755
M
Parents and in laws meeting each other
miss, on August 3, 2018 at 5:35 PM

So my parents want to meet my in laws before the wedding. It will be just me, FH, his parents, and my parents. I’m nervous about it and a little worried that it will be awkward. Is this an awkward...

Stephanie, Apr 19, 2019 27 1,400
A
Fiance Family is Getting in the way of my relationship
Ashley, on March 25, 2019 at 11:39 AM

I'm in wedding planning. Two close relatives just passed away in my family. The day after, I went to my fiance's cousin's baby shower. Two people have been getting to me. My fiance's brother's...

Clíodhna, Apr 19, 2019 8 531
KIMBERLY-AISHA
Sister in law from Pakistan coming for my sons wedding and expects to stay with us....
KIMBERLY-AISHA, on April 17, 2019 at 12:59 AM

Okay. Here is my dilema. My sister in law is in her late 60s-early 70.s I have been married for 34 years. Since she doesnt speak English well it is hard to talk to her. She was here from October 23rd...

KIMBERLY-AISHA, Apr 19, 2019 9 305
Joanne
Prayer for Stressed out Bride
Joanne, on April 11, 2019 at 4:30 PM

As I read through some of the forums, I notice that stress and drama has taken a toll. I pray that even right now that everyone that is experiencing anxiety, stress, depressive episode, stress-related...

Ashlie, Apr 18, 2019 33 2,083
Katie
Help! Mother of groom trying to control wedding decisions
Katie, on April 12, 2019 at 8:53 PM

Looking for advice for handling a crazy controlling MIL.... My fiancé and I plan to get married in late 2020 in Italy. Italy is a very special place for us, I have family who live there, I studied...

Katie, Apr 15, 2019 13 1,205
Hannah
Entitled family members
Hannah, on April 12, 2019 at 10:10 PM

How do/did you deal with family members who all of a sudden come out of the wood works when they find out they aren’t invited to your wedding? When coming up with a guest list, my fiancé and I chose...

BecomingBecker, Apr 15, 2019 14 546
Vickie
On hold
Vickie, on April 13, 2019 at 4:38 PM

My fiance and I was on my way to look at a wedding venue. On the way there he started an argument. It hurt my feelings and we didn't make it to the venue. Felt like he could have waited to discuss our...

Wendy, Apr 14, 2019 8 487
Courtney
No longer excited
Courtney, on April 8, 2019 at 12:22 AM

We have been planning what is supposed to be the happiest day of our lives for almost a year now. My family has managed to make this the most horrible experience ever. I have bridesmaids dropping out,...

Future Mrs.greenwood, Apr 9, 2019 22 1,021
Cat
Maid of Honor drama
Cat, on April 7, 2019 at 2:18 PM

My maid of honor removed herself from my bridal party a month before my wedding. This wedding has been particularly difficult to plan. I’ve had a lot of difficult decisions to make with my family and...

Nicole, Apr 9, 2019 8 442
Lynnie
Did you argue with your parents or in-laws about wedding planning?
Lynnie, on February 21, 2018 at 11:38 AM

Time to fess up and find out if you are innocent or guilty ! Did you argue with your parents or in-laws about wedding planning? Are you innocent or guilty? Next question: Did you have any wedding...

Jasmine, Apr 7, 2019 76 2,833
B
Boundaries for Future In Laws
Bloop, on April 4, 2019 at 7:23 AM

All, We are in need of setting boundaries in our relationship with my future in-laws. Early on they told my fiancé and I that they had a vision for their sons wedding. Their vision and controlling...

Denise, Apr 6, 2019 10 533
Megan
Help! Our best man won’t come to the wedding because of his wife.
Megan, on March 31, 2019 at 5:38 AM

My fiancé and I are getting married and we chose our bridesmaids and groomsmen. I choose 4 close friends and my fiancé’s sister. Now here comes the problem.. I didn’t ask my fiancé’s brothers wife to...

Megan, Apr 1, 2019 29 1,874
K
Frustrated with all my bridesmaid!
Kay, on March 31, 2019 at 10:45 PM

(Sorry, this may come off as a long rant) I have 3 and possibly 4 bridesmaids - my FSIL, FH's step sister, FH's female friend and my friend. His sister, I'll call her M, shows a constant disinterest...

Cristy, Apr 1, 2019 8 381
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