Family and Relationships
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![Hallie](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/5/2/3/utbp_30011523.jpg?r=50574)
I'm 19, and I just got engaged yesterday to my boyfriend. We've only been together for a few months but we've known each other for close to a year. It seems like everyone is against us being together...
![Rebecca](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/8/3/9/utbp_29088839.jpg?r=61769)
My friend got engaged in April to 2018, and set her wedding for May 2020. I got engaged in December of 2018, my fiance and I are religious, and are very much looking forward to being married., and...
![Christen](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/9/4/5/utbp_9803945.jpg?r=22761)
I’m so upset. I announced we are getting married and have set a date and my family shown no excitement whatsoever. Our parents were excited but they knew long before anyone else.
![Gen](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/0/8/4/utbp_9555084.jpg?r=18486)
I’ve always gotten amusement out of scoffing at guests’ lame excuses for bailing on here so figured I’d just share what happened to me. Not my wedding, but a friend (let’s call her M) is getting...
Do you or did you find you were arguing more with your spouse-to-be in the months leading up to the wedding? I know weddings can be stressful - financially and emotionally - but I'm finding that's not...
Does anyone else struggle with the idea of their awful MIL (or any in-law) acting like she's going to be the favorite grandma to your kid? DH and I plan on starting a family next year and we haven't...
![Summer](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/8/7/3/utbp_28965873.jpg?r=16613)
Hi, everyone. I have been on here for quite some time, but mainly as an observer. Long story short, my FH and I decided about 6 months ago that we were ready to get married. We knew we weren't really...
When my brother got married a number of years ago, my sister-in-law did not ask me or any of my sisters to be in the wedding party. He has four sisters. All of her bridal party consisted of her...
![Anna](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/2/7/2/utbp_8124272.jpg?r=15112960)
I realize that “best case scenario* weddings are an opportunity to feel extra love and effort coming from friends and family members...but this has not been my experience at all. Are any of you also...
![Kay.cookie](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/7/0/5/utbp_29876705.jpg?r=83411)
Hi fellow wedding planners, I recently got engaged and we're still over a year out from the wedding date (June 2020) but I'm doing a little thinking ahead (mostly because I'm just really excited to...
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My fiancé proposed in December. He asked my dads permission and the whole nine yards. My dad cried whereas my mom told me that night that I “shouldn’t start planning too much because we’re not paying...
I lost my dad a little over two years ago and would like to have something dedicated to honoring him at our wedding. He will be named in the petitions at the church ceremony but I also want to do...
![Janna](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/0/1/7/utbp_29660017.jpg?r=61255)
My sister is one of my bridesmaids. She is a lesbian and does not ever wear dresses. I'm conflicted as to whether I should have her wear a dress anyway or dress like the guys - in slacks and a...
![JJAF](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/8/4/9/utbp_8425849.jpg?r=14912682)
My brother and SIL are expecting and they keep bringing up a baby shower, hinting to my sister and I that we should be hosting it. Problem is is that they’re expecting around my wedding day and...
![Shyanne](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/9/2/5/utbp_29407925.jpg?r=61584)
Hi guys! So I have a few questions. My soon to be husband is pagan and wants to include a handfasting into our wedding (basically tying the knot), only problem is HIS family sat me down and told me I...
![Davina](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/2/6/1/3/utbp_29822613.jpg?r=23169)
When my partner and I got engaged, my mum said 'I would rather go to a funeral than a wedding.' I feel really sad as I would love some support in planning but she is simply not interested. I don't...
![Amanda](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/8/9/8/utbp_8336898.jpg?r=79036)
Has anyone else had family drama/been forced to have someone in your wedding you didn't want!? My cousins on my mom's brothers side and I are not that close. His children are underage and at the time...
![Erica](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/1/1/7/utbp_4940117.jpg?r=59433)
Hi All, I hope planning is going well with everyone! I have a question about announcing weddings to parents & grandparents friends. My fiancé and I are from Michigan, getting married in ATL. Given...
![Lauren](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/0/6/4/7/utbp_28700647.jpg?r=37107)
So, my brother has always been a bully to me when it comes to my body. He always has something negative to say whether it's about my face, or my hair, but mostly my weight. I live in Kansas and he...
![Futuremrsm](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/3/0/4/utbp_9857304.jpg?r=94755)
So i got engaged late october while on a trip overseas. My fiance and i have been together over 4 years so it was already something i knew was coming and we talked about it beforehand. At christmas my...