I remember my good friend saying “you’ll be shocked how many people come out of the woodwork offering help, interest, and love”... but that has not been my experience at all! My MOH sister bailed from planning (and attending) a bachelorette party, so that fell apart. There are other equally major slights too, but I’ll feel like a ranting troll if I start listing all of them.
In any case, I have always gone above and beyond for other friends and family’s weddings (in effort and finance) and it has been very disheartening to be overwhelmingly unreciprocated....overall, I hate to complain because I am marrying an awesome guy who loves me and we have a great party planned that should be a great time... just hoping to hear that this is not just me... and I wonder what it’s all about, really...Laziness? Apathy? Selfishness? Something wrong with me? Hopefully not that...