I can't be the only one struggling with internal family feuds, flakey parents, and giving everyone a plus one, even when I don't particularly like them, am I?
I am super struggling with placing everyone on the seating chart / whether to even invite them or not.
Because my mom grew up in a split home, both of my grandparents' families despise each other. THEN on my grandma's side, my aunts and uncles are all not talking to each other over petty bs.
My great-aunt in particular has made a huge mess of things trying to control the wedding planning (even though I and my fiancee are paying for the entire thing ourselves) and even giving me her own guest list, a lot of which have plus ones that I do not know.
On my dad's side, it is just him and my 2 brothers, but they never really make an effort to respond when I reach out.
How does one even decide who to invite in these cases, and where the heck to I put them if I do invite them??