Hi everyone!
I just got engaged to the absolute love of my life (yay!) and I couldn't be happier. We've been together 2 years and he is my very best friend. I feel so blessed.
However, my family does not support our relationship or engagement. They've even gone so far as to tell me that I'm "ruining my life." Backstory: they absolutely LOVED my fiance and were 100% behind our getting married someday, until they found out about his political views. My family also is extremely tight-knit to the point of being narcissistically enmeshed, and whenever my now-fiance and I would have a disagreement, they would always pressure me into telling them about it. I know that the #1 rule is to keep your family out of relationship issues, so I know this issue is partially my fault for even telling them about our rough patches. Fiance and I are very open in communicating with each other and have ironed out the kinks and are extremely compatible.
A little more relevant context, when I told my mother we are engaged, she called me evil, said I am betraying the family for going against their wishes, told me I would be cut off from the family, and physically grabbed/scratched me. My fiance has been a solid rock throughout this whole experience and has done nothing but support me and encourage me.
At this point, I am defeated and feel so totally rejected by my family. However, I don't want them to take away from this amazing and monumental phase of my life. I am struggling to figure out what to do. Any advice is appreciated, TIA.