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Family Feud- Fh’s Older Brother

Lauren, on May 28, 2019 at 11:32 AM Posted in Planning 0 5
So, this isn’t my “beef,” but my FH had a “text argument” on a group chat their other siblings and parent shares. He was asking about something wedding related, and (as usual) his brother was being a clown. This time he clearly took it too far when he stated that no one asked him if his daughter could be our FG. That he needed to be consulted or something even though his had been arranged months ago; he said they’d do whatever we needed them to do and so on. Now the FH doesn’t want to invite him and his entire family. We are two months out (I don’t care if we have a FG). What would you do in this situation? Between his parents and this sibling, I know they are driving him crazy.

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Latest activity by Kelly, on May 28, 2019 at 12:23 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    It sounds like his brother was joking around and your FH took it too seriously. It's really difficult to tell without knowing his personality or the context of the conversation. Unless your FH is prepared to lose his relationship with his brother, uninviting him from the wedding is super dramatic.

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  • L
    Dedicated July 2019
    Lauren ·
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    He’s an absolute jerk not to mention insanely arrogant and jealous. I get why he blew up on him, but I agree that he gives him too much power over his emotions. That stems from something else though. Besides, his daughter was so excited to do it.
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  • Leigh
    Dedicated January 2020
    Leigh ·
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    I don’t totally understand the story, but did you or your FH ask your niece to be in the wedding without talking to her parents? Is he mad that you asked his wife instead of him?
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  • L
    Dedicated July 2019
    Lauren ·
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    He already agreed to let her be apart of the wedding. I think he just likes agitating his brother. I’m not sure what the purpose of him making that false claim was. Everything can’t be a joke.
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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    My brother is just the same! I say ignore the brother until the wedding and tell your husband to stay away for his peace of mind.
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