How can I figure out how to plan for a second (mine) and first (his) wedding when I have really no family but he does...? We both want something special and unique to our very quirky personalities. He says he doesn't care about the wedding, he just wants to marry me. But I don't want to deprive him of a wedding (we could do a city hall thing, but should we...?) My first marriage was sweet and intimate, but we both had our family and friends there. I'm from down south and it'd be a lot to ask my friends to travel, as we are paying for this ourselves, but my fiance has grown up in upstate NY and has roots and long established relationships. And, honestly, I'd feel awfully lonely with no one, erring on that side because maybe people would travel, but I really want something special for him... I'd appreciate some suggestions. Thank you in advance!
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