Just learned that nobody from my FH's extended family will come to our wedding that was delayed by over a year due to covid. What's worse is that some who originally accepted the invite last year now decided to bail. One aunt said that since they haven't been able to travel for a year, she and her partner are now excited for personal travel and cannot do both their personal travels and our wedding. The other uncle became hesitant because his sister is not going, and then cousins decided not to come because their parents are not going. All this happened within a few days and needless to say, my FH's parents were devastated. The wedding is out of their state, so in a way we understand it's more difficult for ppl to come, but I can't help but feel mad & sad. They have the means and time to go, it's just that they'll go somewhere else and not our wedding.
My family is from abroad so it's likely that only my mom will make the trip. We originally planned the wedding to be half family, half friends, but now it looks like we'll only have friends and immediate family and it'll be a small <40ppl wedding.
