I’m really struggling with wedding planning. My partner is a full time student in an intensive nursing program and is about to take the NCLEX (the huge exam to become a certified RN), so he helps when he can but I want him to focus on studying. My mom died two years ago and would have been the most amazing help with planning. No one else in my immediate family is stepping up to help at all. My dad is helping pay, but I am completely on my own when it comes to planning. He even keeps forgetting the actual date.
My sister will have to miss a cross country meet because of my wedding, and my dad is making me feel like it’s a big inconvenience for her and I should be over-the-top grateful that she would miss the meet to come to my wedding. I think it’s the least she can do, since she is my MOH but hasn’t offered to help with anything.
One last thing - I’ve mentioned that I’d love to have a bridal shower to several people who would be very appropriate to serve as hosts and definitely have the means to do so, but no one has offered to host one. My mom went above and beyond for so many people in my extended family and has thrown a lot of bridal and baby showers for my cousins over the years, so it’s really hurtful that between my own immediate family, my mother in law, and all my aunts, no one has offered to host a bridal shower. I know this is rambling, but at this point I just want to give up and cancel the big reception. I could use some advice.
Post content has been hidden
To unblock this content, please click here
Related articles
![Do You Have to Include Family in Your Wedding Party?](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/1/9/2/9/img_19291/tb_bridesmaids-sibyl-sophia-floral-design.jpg)
Etiquette
Do You Have to Include Family in Your Wedding Party?
Traditional etiquette suggests that you should include close family members in...
![The Best Black Friday and Cyber Monday Deals for Your Wedding](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/5/1/8/4/img_24815/tb_weddingwire-wedding-deals-black-friday-cyber-monday.jpg)
Wedding Services
The Best Black Friday and Cyber Monday Deals for Your...
The holiday season is the perfect time to score wedding deals. These Cyber...
![The Ultimate Guide to Greek Wedding Dances](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/img_g/ww/tb_annette-jamie-hannamonikaweddingphotography-hmja106-0.jpg)
Speeches & Traditions
The Ultimate Guide to Greek Wedding Dances
Rompi Rompi to Mavi Mavi, kick off your shoes and get ready to review classic...