Hi everyone, my fiance and I are really struggling with some things right now, maybe someone out there has been through something similar and has some insight. It's a long story but I'll try to be as brief as possible. We were supposed to get married april 2020, so you all know what happened there. Prior to our wedding being cancelled my fiance was dealing with some really bad drama with his family making him very anxious. Shortly after our wedding was postponed he got sick. Testing was delayed due to lockdown, he got extremely sick and no one could find out what was wrong with him. We postponed twice and currently have no date. Things are just now starting to look up and we are talking about planning our wedding again. The problem is, prior to the wedding I thought I had a very close family and support system, but this past year that we have been going through hell, these people have not been there at all. I'm talking wedding party members, readers, other people involved in our ceremony who we were very close to we have not heard a peep from. Now, I want to just have a small wedding with immediate family, but my fiance wants to have the whole big original thing. I don't want to regret later not having a wedding, but I also don't want to spend thousands on people who to me have shown they don't actually care about us. Does anyone have any advice on this? I don't want to make a decision I'll regret and also don't want to be a crank at my own wedding. It feels like a no win situation. I also am afraid if we have a wedding his family will start back up again with their drama from before, and we've had such an awful year I just want to have a fun beautiful day, whatever the plans end up being.
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