Father daughter dance… but father has Alzheimer’s

My Girl is a nice light-hearted song that won’t get too heavy into things stemming from lost memory.


Also, did you and your dad ever have a song together that meant something to you? Your dance doesn’t have to be a specific father/daughter song. My dad and I danced to Waltz Across Texas because he used to randomly start waltzing with me and sing that song. Music is very powerfully connected to memory, so a song that’s personal might connect with your dad more than traditional father/daughter lyrics.

I would absolutely spend some time applying music therapy of sorts. Have a short list and spend an afternoon with him. Take breaks between songs. Try out each song and see if he stays engaged and enjoys the experience, and that's your winner!

I cannot imagine how difficult it must be but it's so wonderful to incorporate the traditions in the way that works best for any family! Congratulations to you, and I am quite certain the dance will be one to remember. ♥