So I have my father and my step father . My biological father decided LAST NIGHT that he wasn't coming to my wedding. I get married in 9 days so that has me stressed out quite a bit.
I told my dad 18 months ago (when I got engaged) that I was going to have him and my stepfather walk me down the aisle, he went back and forth with saying "yes" "no" "yes" "no". Well, he finally called me two weeks ago and told me that if he wasn't the only one walking me down the aisle then he didn't know if he could come at all. I couldn't take that as a for sure "no". So I decided to text him last night (so I wasn't trapped on the phone for 2 hours) and told him that I needed a for sure yes or no. He finally gave me a hard "no".
What he isn't thinking about is that my stepfather has been in my life for 7 years now and he is a great father! But my dad "hates" my mom and my stepdad and doesn't realize that he has treated me as his own from day one, so we have gotten close.
That being said, my dad, my grandparents and all of my cousins, aunts and uncles (on my dads side) won't be there.
Is anyone else going through this?