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Rachel
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Feedback on my wedding dress choice...

Rachel, on November 27, 2020 at 4:55 PM

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Hi, Everyone - I need some advice! How do you combat the negative feedback on your wedding dress? Even though my Mom and I were the only ones that went to my appointment, I did have a small group of friends that I sent photos of my dress and other dresses I tried on. While the majority of them...
Hi, Everyone -


I need some advice! How do you combat the negative feedback on your wedding dress? Even though my Mom and I were the only ones that went to my appointment, I did have a small group of friends that I sent photos of my dress and other dresses I tried on. While the majority of them agreed that my Nelson gown is perfect for me because of the fit, setting, venue, etc., I had a few reply saying that they liked the other gowns better (specifically the Gigi gown) because they looked more fun and like “me”. While I understand where they’re coming from, I know it comes down to what the bride likes and how she feels when she has her gown on. I am trying to block out the feedback in my mind, but it’s cashed a bit of hurt feelings and confusion for me. Did anyone else deal with these emotions? cfb_1442777.jpg
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    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    I agree with the suggestions not to show anyone else your dress (and certainly not dresses you didn't choose). You already made your decision, so you don't need any opinions or advice. And I promise you will get all of the validation/compliments you need on your wedding day.

    Moving on from your dress decision to all of the other planning decisions ahead of you, I would be very careful who you share details with and how much. If you ask for opinions (and most people would consider you sending unsolicited photos is asking for opinions even if that's not your intent), you need to be prepared to hear positive and negative ones. Either be OK with that, or simply don't ask.

    Now, you might still get opinions thrown your way but now is the time to learn how to nod, smile, and change the subject. Be confident in your choices and keep moving forward. Worrying about "negative" feedback to this degree on every aspect of wedding planning will make this a long, painful process for you.

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