I love FH, and we have a great time together, but ever since we've gotten engaged and started planning it's brought up some serious differences in communication. We've been able to talk it out, and we are both pretty up front if we are upset which is good, and we have some premarital counseling sessions coming up with our pastor (pre-arranged before the arguing started), it hurts to feel like our engagement is so stressful to him that we argue all the time, whereas before we hardly ever argued.
We are buying a house as well, so I know that's added stress. It's just difficult. He complains about the planning of everything and forgets things I've asked him to do. It just isn't fun anymore. I've offered to just do it myself or figure something else out and he says no, that he'll help, but then he bitches about having to work late and get up early to go to wedding appointments. It just makes me question whether it's stress that will be forever, or if it will pass once things calm down
