Hi everyone! So one of my friends is getting married in May and just went dress shopping and said yes to the dress today. long story short, I’m feeling a little down that I wasn’t invited. My husband is very close friends with the brides fiancée and this was how we got to know each other. The bride and I hardly ever hang out apart of when the 4 of us get together, but together they are our best friends. The bride-to-be and her fiancée were actually best man and maid of honor at our wedding back in December. I don’t have a lot of close friends unfortunately and I thought it would be cool to ask her to be maid of honor since her fiancé was best man. Thinking about it now, maybe it was awkward to ask her to be my MOH because we’ve never been super close.
Anyways, I’m just a little bummed I didn’t get an invite to her wedding dress shopping but I absolutely do not want to cause any drama or problems because she’s my friend and I want her to be happy and enjoy her time as a bride-to-be! My mind just can’t help but wander and get stuck on thinking if I was asked to be a bridesmaid out of “pity” and if she wants to include me in these special moments with her. Any advice is appreciated! Thank you for reading
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