I've been married all of 7 months but from early on I think my husband unknowingly mislead me about the person he is when it comes to money. When we were dating he seemed very financially stable, not rich but seemingly made sound decisions. He saw the value in investing and buying important things, like a house and a car rather than spending on vanity. These things impressed me a lot because This made me believe he would be good life partner and future father. However since we got married he has constantly made statements that he doesn't have any money. I found out he didn't purchase his house or car without help and both persons that helped him were pressuring him for their money back. We have been married for 7 months and haven't been able to buy a decent couch, dining room set or other things that I think a married couple should have. We are still living in basically what was his bachelor pad.
He keeps coming up with ideas of what we should do next but never actually does any of it. He is always complaining about money, and since I started my master's I haven't been able to buy some of these things myself. We both have good paying jobs but he makes me worry when he constantly complains of not having enough money. It makes me wonder if this is how he will be when we need to make really important decisions. I'm worried he's actually just a procrastinator and he can't actually make financial decisions. Whenever I suggest something about the house he finds some way to turn it down. It's making me really discouraged. Am I just too anxious ? Should I just ignore him when he complains about money? Is it normal to feel like you were duped into your relationship
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