My fiancé and I are in the midst of planning our wedding..rather, I am in the midst of planning it. I'm doing a lot of diy projects to save money, have done all the research on vendors, booked them and set up all the meetings with them. I've discussed everything with him only to get no real feedback and despite voicing my concerns or listing off what still needs doing in the hopes of him picking something to take on, I'm doing it by myself. I'm getting so frustrated that I'm starting to second-guess if this is what I really want. I've expressed that it's supposed to be OUR day and that I feel like it's just my day at this point, in which case, I'd probably just say to heck with the whole thing...I'm planning OUR wedding not a day for me. Ugh, I just don't know what more I can do to get him to be more active with, at the very least, this project...or if I'm just holding on to an idea of our life together *sigh* it's not just the wedding that I feel I get little help with either