I'm stressing! I absolutely hate how I feel in my dress. When I bought the dress I was 30 lbs heavier, after much diet and exercise, I was finally ready to do my fittings. My dress needed to be taken in massive inches everywhere. 65 pins total. Now that it fits, I can't wear any kind of undergarment or shaper. You can see any line, bone or seem through the lace. The lady had to sew in cups into the dress just so I didn't feel so naked. However, now I feel like all you notice us my belly! Like the first thing you see isn't me in the dres, it's my belly in the dress. I have bought about 7 different shapers and none work. I'm so depressed, and I feel terrible. I bought a second dress for the reception, which I love and feel great in. I wish I went for an Aline dress, since so bottom heavy. Instead I have this super fitted dress, I look like a fat white beyonce. Ugh help!