My wedding is February 12th. I want to be married to my fiancé already, we basically are married and united he’s my literal best friend and greatest support. I can’t wait to close on our house, to try for a baby on our honeymoon I’ve started taking prenatals.
But when it comes to the wedding itself I was so excited but now I feel dread. I’m avoiding my emails because I don’t want to see emails from my vendors. I feel like no matter what I was quoted my invoices are at least twice or three times as much. I thought I had paid off my balance/ was 1500k away from paying it off which I was planning on doing this month but was sent an updated invoice a few days ago with a bunch of fees that were not on any of the others and now it’s 3500. The caterer flat out told me that it’s ridiculous that I want beef for “just a lunch” and One minute she’ll do full service the next she absolutely won’t and it has to be a drop off service and it’ll save me so much money, than the cost is basically the same, then “I don’t have time to worry about your wedding when I have weddings thins month” she basically told me I’m crazy for thinking she could be on time. So I told her a drop off time of much earlier, she doesn’t think she can keep food warm because it’s an outdoor event? There is an outdoor kitchen. Which I’m not sure why I’m responsible for that logistic but my wedding planner is the same way. I did all the leg work with the logistics I had to see through every problem and finally when it’s all worked out and I’m excited and I’ve spent hours finding vendors my wedding planner basically told me she couldn’t find and left me to deal with, random fees show up.
The wedding is a DW which is why vendors are limited but idk I just feel like crap about the whole thing. I wouldn’t have went this route at all if I had a real number at any point and it’s too late to back out now.
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