My fiance proposed a few weeks ago. Since then, I bought a planner, started writing down my guest list, we planned a date (20 months away) and I started thinking about and taking screenshots of ideas that I like. We are also planning an engagement party with a few our family members. I had no clue about venue's and as I started inquiring, I was bombarded with emails and venues reaching out to me. Well, two of the venues got my interest, so I messaged them back. When I shared this with my partner, he suggested I book a tour, so I did. Now, in my personal opinion, securing a venue 20 or 19 months out is actually a good thing because it's a peace of mind, a knowing if you will, and we can take our time to plan all the other things. Today, he tells me that I'm rushing things, that he only proposed a few weeks ago, and that we haven't even gone through our marriage counseling yet. So, don't secure a venue until after that? He also stated that he wants to wait until Black Friday to see if any deals arise. Black Friday is five months away. I insisted in telling him about the effects Covid has had on weddings, with pricing and dates. I have been on cloud 9 the past few weeks, and today I was just deflated and have had a knot in my stomach. I ended the conversation, letting him know that I was hurt and he told me I was acting like a hurt child and was immature. Am I being unreasonable for having my feeling hurt and feeling deflated by this?
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