My fiance and I are at that age where lots of people we know are getting married. We have been sent the dates for 8 weddings this year already and are expecting more. We disagree about whether to attend or not, so I want to know what others think.
For context, we live far away from most of our family friends, so all would require a hotel room and most also would require flights. We can't afford to go to every one and bring a nice gift.
FH wants to go to every single wedding and just give a small gift to save money. I want to give a nice gift at the ones we really want to be at and skip the ones for people we are less close to.
FH thinks people will be hurt if we don't go and won't mind a small gift. I don't think people will notice if we don't go to these huge weddings, but I would be embarrassed if we gave an unusually small gift ($50 instead of our usual $200)
What do you think? How would you view this as a wedding host?
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