So I really need to vent and I apologise now that it's so long. I'm pretty upset by the fact that my FH is inviting his ex crush to our wedding. I have never met her before as she lives a few states away but I feel like they are a lot closer than just friends and it's bothering me.
Quick background. The two of them went to high school together and ended up having feelings for each other. They never actually dated but that doesn't mean they couldn't still have feelings for one another. Eventually she moved a few states away but they stayed in touch through social media and phone calls and whatnot. Then 3 years ago, he and I met. A little while into the relationship he was telling me about her and I found out she literally called him about everything under the sun. There were times that she would call while we were together and always needed something. That's where my dislike for her started. All I could think was why does she feel the need to constantly contact him and why does he constantly answer? I even expressed my concerns to him and all I got was "you have nothing to be jealous about" which angered me.
Fast forward to now. After much discussion and arguments, he is still inviting her. I finally decided to come to terms with the fact that she's coming. What I now have a problem with is that he's doing everything in his power to get her to and from the wedding and even asked if she wanted to book a room at the small Inn we are staying in. He asked one of his friends to pick her up from the airport and bring her to the wedding on the morning of the wedding and back the next evening. This friend is not spending the night at our venue which is about 45 minutes from where he lives so if she spends the night he would have to drive all the way back to get her which I feel is unfair to him. My FH's solution? Why doesn't she ride back with us? I was speechless! All I could do was stare at him and then he got mad at me for it. Ugh!
I just feel like he doesn't care at all about my feelings about it all because he can't understand why I feel the way I do. And I'm stressing out about it a lot!
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