Only 23 days away from the wedding and my FH breaks down and tells me he is terrified of getting married. We have been together for 3 years, but long distance for 2. I recently got a job in the state where he lives and will be moving in just 2 days (21 days before the wedding). You can imagine, the stress is high. He has been slightly supportive but hasn't really helped with any of the move, planning or anything so a lot has fallen on my back.
We legitimately almost called off the wedding because I don't want to feel like I am forcing him. He says he is scared because his parents had a super messy divorce. He is scared for that to happen to us but I have zero doubts. I am realistic, but we are both too stubborn to fail haha. I want to reassure him and him still feel safe coming to talk to me about how he is feeling. He says he still wants to marry me, and have a future together but the fear of actually moving in together, getting married and the thought of divorce is almost debilitating for him.
Thoughts? Advice? At this point, I will try just about anything.