FH wants to plan honeymoon and surprise me....thoughts?

Go for it... Wish mine would

We're both type A, but he's been very laid back with the planning except for the honeymoon. He wants to plan the entire thing, I agree to it with one exception, we both will decide the place. Other than that, he will plan everything else.

I think it will be really fun! Let loose for this one time and just enjoy what he has planned for you!

I would at least want to know how to pack! Like am I packing for the beach or more of a city trip? I'd pack way different for the Caribbean than I would, say, Paris.

Mine thinks we are going to Key West for the week, hope she isnt to upset when the plane lands in St Lucia instead of South Florida!

My brother did this for my SIL. Surprised her with a trip to Bora Bora.... let him have his fun! No matter what, you'll be together and enjoying life . I think it's sweet

I hate surprises and I love to plan everything myself but you should let him if he wants to. He's trying to do something nice.

I think it's super sweet to have him surprise you! I totally get wanting to know but maybe limit him to a region? Or chain of hotel/resort that you've liked in the past and he picks the location?

I gave that job (his only one) to my FH. We had talked about where we wanted to go first but I left final decisions up to him. When he booked a La Quinta, his mother told him he should talk about it with me again. We ended up planning it together and we are both really excited about it.

For weekend getaways he normally plans most of it, and we stay at La Quinta's for the rewards, price and free hot breakfast, so I think he just didn't get that I wanted something a little more special and a bit of a splurge. And with more romance.

Sounds like you and I and our FHs are very similar to one another! Lol. My FH suggested this to me at the beginning and I was like thanks but no thanks sweetheart. Lol. He is way too unorganized and I would be way too anxious about knowing what to pack and what to expect. I don't think it's a big deal to say you don't want that to be a surprise.

I would let him plan, but try to remind him of things you like or dislike, and remember it's one less thing to add to your stress level, and planning.... Try to enjoy it, sometimes we all need to compromise in marriage and this might be a good way to start. Maybe also talk to his family or best man, if anyone else knows where or what he is planning, you could ask them to help our give them ideas to tell him!

I would keep it a surprise! I have a type A personality too so I understand your thoughts. But definitely ask questions on what to pack! Don't want to be prepared for the beach and end up in the mountains