My fiancé and I are getting married next September. We agreed on a modest sized venue to hold a small number of people (under 50). Now, he is telling me he wants to marry me but doesn't want a wedding at all. I still do and money has already been put down to hold the venue. What should I do? He's jokingly (I think) saying things like, "Well maybe I'll show up that day." I've told him he's hurting my feelings but he won't stop. I can't get married without my family there, but I compromised that it would only be immediate family. He is still not happy with that compromise. Obviously he is more important to me than a wedding. What should I do? How else could we come to a compromise? He doesn't want to spend a lot of money for one day, which I understand, but my parents, his mom, and me are paying for it all and it's all under $10k. Any advice would be greatly, greatly appreciated. I want to make him happy without compromising what I would like, too. Please help!
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