Fiance and I had HUGE fight/broken engagement...need all the advice I can get, please!!!

Sounds like he needs some space, don't push the wedding on him. it'll take time for him to get over the fact you gave the ring back.

By you giving him the ring back may have made him feel some kind of way.. just give him some time.. everything will fall in place..

Others have mentioned it, but I will reiterate it. Do NOT sacrifice yourself to make this right. You have done nothing wrong. FH and I broke up 29 years ago because of his "ex", who turned out not to be so much of an ex. He can talk to anyone, but her, even to this day. He has had 2 other SOs since then, and I could care less, but the bitch from 1985 is out of the picture. He respects that, even though it doesn't make him happy.

I would kindly And with as much love as you can muster, tell him you are Going to take a week with no communication, for both of you. Tell him once he's ready to talk, he can contact you. I know it sounds petty, but of its his pride holding him up, he needs a taste of what like is like without you. No more pouring put your heart. Only the facts And Never snarkiness, malice or weakness. Showing strength And level-headedness in the middle of a shit storm strikes fear in the heart of any man who plays games. Holding out for pride is a game.

I hate to say this and you prob don’t want to hear it but maybe you have back the ring for a reason? I know everyone can get caught up in the moment and the stress of planning a wedding but tbh if he kept bringing up an argument and even yelled at you at times then maybe that’s not the person you’re meant to be with… before my fiancé, I was with someone who did the same thing… he constantly wanted to argue over the smallest things and would always yell at me. I was with him for 5 years until I finally realized the abuse I was enduring. Obviously everyone is different and I’m not saying your person is abusing you but I also don’t know the full story. I would take this time to reflect on you as a person and really think about the relationship too. Maybe you two just need this time because if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. But just remember that everyone will work out in the end. As for the wedding, don’t feel pressured to get back to together right away bc it’s in 3 months. Maybe try to see if you can postpone it to save the money?? Sorry you’re going through this and I hope you two can work it out!

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I don't think she's going to see this post, she wrote it in 2014 lol

View Quoted Comment Lol omg okay thanks!

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Haha no worries