Hi Ladies, I don't usually write on forums but as of late, I'm having trouble getting my fiance to plan the wedding. For background, we got engaged on New Year's Eve and now, we are 32 days out and there is a lot that still needs to be done. There is also a lot on his end, he hasn't been responsive to (ie: picking a song he can walk out to, choosing readings he wants an aunt on his side to read, sending our reverend 2 reasons why he loves me and one thing about me that makes him frustrated- our reverend does this to personalize our ceremony). Anyway, at the start of summer (he's a tennis professional) he took a head professional position at a club that will pay him well and will help us with a down payment on our first home, so now he is working two jobs. I told him he can take the position if he also prioritizes the wedding but he hasn't and i don't know what to do. This is the first wedding i've planned and it's not in our budget to hire a planner. It should be added that I was very much happy just getting eloped but I understand how that wasn't for him, so we compromised on an intimate wedding with 60 of our closest friends and family. Anyway I'm getting super nervous and have been having panic attacks. I've asked him sweetly if he could help out, I've begged him and I've yelled at him and nothing seems to get done. I know he's busy working and is hardly home but I'm starting to grow resentment. Any constructive advice? Not "run" or "leave him". Our relationship is very solid for the most part and I dont think it's reasonable to leave someone who i've spent years with and already have a life with. Thanks!
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