I'm in wedding planning. Two close relatives just passed away in my family. The day after, I went to my fiance's cousin's baby shower.
Two people have been getting to me. My fiance's brother's girlfriend is rude and has been in the past. She spent two hours taking modelling pictures for her Instagram, talked about new clothes she wanted to buy, flat out ignored me when she knew I was going through a lot. And even more - my fiance's brother chases after her trying to make sure she's always happy and could not say a simple "how are you doing?". And NO one ever sees a problem with this treatment. I just sit quietly in the corner. I'm 29 and she's 22, so people use the excuse that she's immature, but she's said insulting comments to my face (saying my sister is not allowed to come to my wedding events), tried to take away attention during my wedding time, etc.
The second person. -- my fiance's cousin who attended the baby shower. She is on and off rude and ignores me, so my fiance chose to confront her yesterday. She flat out denied she was being mean to me at first, but then overtime started screaming saying are you really happy with your fiance? (Me). It seems like she makes you unhappy and your parents unhappy, and also made comments about my family - calling mother awkward, saying she thinks I have a bad personality, etc.. and she is 35 with two kids.
I've had enough. And I've been through a lot this year so I find it very frustrating to deal with additional drama when I know for a fact I've done absolutely nothing to either of them. Both these girls walk around innocent like they're not mean but they are. And no one else sees it but me. I can't deal with it anymore and I'm wondering if I should even get married because they've made sure to make sure to get in between my relationship with my fiance, his parents etc. I feel super alone.
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