So we've been together 10 yrs. We had found out I was pregnant 4 years ago but that wasn't really something we planned. He then became super negative about the pregnancy, we never had a happy moment thinking or planning about the future baby. It was all eye rolls.
He's a great dad but getting married took a back seat. There was a time I just wanted to get married at the courthouse but he recently reasked me and for us to set a date.
I began planning a real wedding . For like 5k, nothing expensive or lavishBut now he tells me he doesn't want a wedding and we're just wasting money. ... Even though I've been planning for a month. Being excited. Showing him things. Looking at venues... I don't want to go through another event planning with eye rolling and misery..
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