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Francesca
Just Said Yes May 2022

Fiance miserable the whole time.

Francesca, on April 10, 2021 at 11:55 PM Posted in Planning 0 4
So we've been together 10 yrs. We had found out I was pregnant 4 years ago but that wasn't really something we planned. He then became super negative about the pregnancy, we never had a happy moment thinking or planning about the future baby. It was all eye rolls.



He's a great dad but getting married took a back seat. There was a time I just wanted to get married at the courthouse but he recently reasked me and for us to set a date.
I began planning a real wedding . For like 5k, nothing expensive or lavishBut now he tells me he doesn't want a wedding and we're just wasting money. ... Even though I've been planning for a month. Being excited. Showing him things. Looking at venues... I don't want to go through another event planning with eye rolling and misery..

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Latest activity by Meghan, on April 11, 2021 at 8:30 AM
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    Super September 2020
    Alli ·
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    I am not sure what you’re asking or just venting. I personally would never marry someone like that. Heartbreaking situation you’re in. 😞
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Have you let him know how his lack of support and enthusiasm make you feel? And how you’d like him to be? I hope once you tell him how important this is to you he might change his attitude.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    It sounds like you two have trouble communicating.

    Have you done counseling? It can help improve your communication... and maybe instead of eye rolling, he'll talk out his feelings, instead.

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  • Meghan
    Expert September 2021
    Meghan ·
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    I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I agree with the PP. Couples counseling could be a way to work on communication and how to work through different situations together. Best of luck!
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