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Fiancé refuses any wedding talk..

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LuvBeingMarried2Him!, on August 25, 2016 at 12:22 AM

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So I've seen several ladies on here say their fiancé's 'refuse' to talk about anything wedding related .. and basically won't even let them bring anything up..Am I the only one who doesn't completely understand that? If the man asks the woman to marry him doesn't that imply he wants to 'get...

If the man asks the woman to marry him doesn't that imply he wants to 'get married'?! I'm so confused when I see posters say this..

Not trying to insult anyone at all but I genuinely feel bad for the ladies who are bursting with excitement because they've waited for this moment their whole lives and they have a fiancé who refuses to talk about it.

I would assume it definitely puts a strain on the communication? I'm just really trying to understand why a man would want to propose yet not want to talk about it?

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Just Said Yes July 2021
Jessica · on January 17, 2022 at 9:24 PM
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I don't know but I am going through this right now. I have toured venues alone and constantly made excuses for why we have not planned anything. I am contemplating ending the relationship. This has been a 2 year thing. I am tired of being sad and crying.
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Just Said Yes March 2025
Victoria · on March 25, 2022 at 8:24 PM
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At least yalls FH talks about it.
My FH acts like he doesn't even want to get married. Everytime I bring it up says "do you really think this is the right time"
OR "Can that please wait do you not see what we are dealing with right now"And it literally makes me cry and woner if he really wants to get married or not.
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Just Said Yes January 2023
J Uys · on October 11, 2022 at 5:12 PM
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I'm having the same issue with my fiance. He doesn't care about anything about our wedding which is only 2.5 months away. It's beyond frustrating and causes major issues between us since he is literally just like a zombie when it comes to our wedding plans. Yet he is the one that said he wanted a proper church wedding and me in a big white dress, but whenever we have to make decisions about stuff then he just doesn't care about anything. He actually made me feel like calling the whole thing off. I don't expect him to be super into all the details but certain things like our ceremony program and his solo photos while getting dressed on the day need to be discussed and he just does not care and it ends up in a fight. I mean i am not getting married to myself, his involvement is required or we might as well just leave the whole thing. He is completely ruining my bridal glow.
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