Fiancé straying..

@FutureMrsNerd--You're good. You don't have your real name on WW. I always say people have control over their own privacy functions at all times, so if you want to remain private, you can. If you don't, then it's the internet and it's all fair game.

@FutureMrsNerd - Google your wedding date and city. That's the first step.

Thanks @Beautivant. I always use this on mobile so I was nervous what my profile showed. I keep my FB private anyway. My IG is public. If someone wants to look at all my food pictures, they're welcome to lol

ETA words are hard

Lets see.... FH meeting up with women at a bar!??? HELL NO!!!!! I would leave him! Sorry this is happening to you. I hope you find strength to make the right decision.

I'm so sorry. All of the red flags are there and I couldn't move on with a wedding after finding all of that out

Yeah.... definitely still happening, apparently Good luck to you, OP. I sincerely, sincerely hope it works out for you.

Have make up sex

^^^ 18 pages of serious concern and you come up with that? JFC.

I'm sorry!!! Sucks! Big time!

Amanda -

So sorry!! But like the others, I'd be gone. You deserve better!

Yeah... Cause makeup sex is going to solve and ease this poor girls mind. Ridiculous!

4 years ago, I called off a wedding 7 days before. I realized I couldn't trust him and didn't want to drive myself crazy wondering if he was talking to other women behind my back again. 7 DAYS BEFORE! Is it embarrassing? Hell yeah! But guess what? I had more people praising me for having the guts they would have never had. For making the WISE decision to walk away before hand, instead of having to go through a divorce afterwards. People supported me, and others kept their distance and let me heal. You being here asking for help is enough of an answer. There is clearly a lot of doubt here....you should postpone at the very least.

The day I called of the wedding, i had him move out. So many lies had been revealed and the sight of his face made me furious. It was hard picking up the pieces. I won't sugarcoat that. We had just moved into a new place that month, and I now had to foot the bill myself. Was it hard?! HELL YES! But did I do it? Yup! I sure did. And as time passed, I was HAPPY again. What you're feeling now, you will feel like that every single day! Spare yourself the pain. One day, THE ONE will actually come around. This guy is not it.

Eww Amanda- Are you 18? That is so uncalled for this is serious.

Ashley- Come back and update us. Even with counseling, getting married and then divorced is a lot worse than calling this wedding off even 5 days before hand.

Also- cancel your honeyfund because if nothing else your guests should NOT be paying for you and this loser to go on a honey moon!

Guys her wedding is Saturday. Telling her to cancel HF or go to counseling isn't an option prior to the wedding. Just saying.

I would be giving back the money for the HF if that was my situation going into the wedding. Or I'd be asking for it back if I had donated to it being a guest.

So she's supposed to say, oh sorry FH asked for a BJ on CL so here's your $ back. I am not following. I think there are bigger problems here than that.

Not to mention, it looks like no one bought anything. lol.

No I think makeup sex is a good idea. And make sure to be completely financially dependent on him too because he's so trustworthy.

I think we've been punked

Omg I'm so sorry. I'm so devastated for you. You're strong enough to make it through this. Think about it, would you still marry him, let alone BE with him if it wasn't for the wedding being in 9 days? You deserved so much better. At least postpone it for now