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Ashley
Beginner August 2016

Fiancé straying..

Ashley, on July 28, 2016 at 7:36 PM

Posted in Planning 347

So I just found out that my fiancé has been talking to another woman. Nothing physical happened, but calling and texting and meeting at the bar. Also, I found out he put up a craigslist post for someone to give him a BJ, while I was away one weekend. Nothing happened with that. Would you still marry...

So I just found out that my fiancé has been talking to another woman. Nothing physical happened, but calling and texting and meeting at the bar. Also, I found out he put up a craigslist post for someone to give him a BJ, while I was away one weekend. Nothing happened with that. Would you still marry him? I just found out and our wedding is in 9 days. Help!

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  • R
    VIP September 2015
    Rosie9615 ·
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    She went through with it

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  • diannaSD
    Devoted September 2016
    diannaSD ·
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    Smiley sad

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  • Cindy
    Devoted May 2017
    Cindy ·
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    Yeah.. I was wondering the same thing... she probably did.. so sad..

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  • Allison
    Dedicated October 2021
    Allison ·
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    Whatever happened? Did you guys get counseling?

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  • Ashley
    Beginner August 2016
    Ashley ·
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    I did go through with the wedding. Mainly because letting my family down who paid for it seemed like too much to handle at the time. And the day went amazing, it was a great party. We got some counseling, everything was good for about a year. Then I found out that he was cheating on me. Had him take a lie detector test...when it came back negative he tried to kill himself and I had to talk him into giving me the gun that was in his hand. When he got back from the mental hospital I started the divorce process. We actually got a dissolution and everything went fairly well. Of course there was drama, but in the long run we never had kids or anything so cutting ties was easy.

    Yes I know many of the people on here will say “I told you so!” But after reading through many of the comments, some of you are just plain awful. Clearly I was going through a tough time here and some of you need to keep the “if you don’t have anything nice to say..” mantra in mind.

    Anyways, I have found the reason why all of this had to happen and I am happier than ever to be planning my second wedding with someone I can completely trust! 💕✌🏼
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  • Allison
    Dedicated October 2021
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    I am genuinely happy for you! It can be extremely tough to make life altering decisions regardless of whether others feel they should be easy or not.
    Congratulations on your new healthy love ❤
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  • Amber
    Super September 2020
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    Absoutley not!! Run for the hills. If he's doing this before you're married he's going to do it while you're his wife.
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