As the title says my Fiancée wants a big wedding and I don't. We have been engaged since July 5th of 2020 and our wedding is July 10 of 2021. We having nothing planned, don't even know whos going to marry us yet; don't have a venue picked out and we don't even know how much we want to spend yet! I, from the start, have just wanted to go to the courthouse and get married there. He refuses to compromise all because of "Tradition". Not to mention, I have pretty much nobody, including my parents, that are coming. He on the other hand, has like 30 something people that might come. I feel stressed, and just sad about this. I thought your wedding day was supposed to be happy and joyful; But with how the planning's going, I'm scared of what the actual day is gonna be like. Has anyone else had this problem and how did you fix it? Please I need advice outside of family. I don't mean to sound selfish either, I just don't see the point in having a big wedding when its just for the two of us. It's a waist of time and money. I'd rather use that time and money to help him pack and move. By the way, we have to move his stuff 19+ hours away and it's gonna be expensive to do that. And I have to fly out to where were getting married and most likely get a hotel for 2 weeks. Am I being unreasonable?
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