Anyways, he told her we were getting engaged in August and she scoffed and asked was he sure about that and he said of course. I knew a storm was brewing. Then last month she called up and blew up about a non issue involving him not being able to make it to his brother's birthday party and went on a tirade saying he didn't care about her and he's choosing me over her and that why would you want to marry someone who doesn't want kids and all this and that and finished it off by saying she isn't coming to the wedding.
I honestly don't care if her negative, selfish, childish presence isn't there but I know my fiance is feeling some type of way about it as he hates conflict and hates the rocky relationship he has had with his mom for the past couple of years and hates most of all that me and her aren't getting along. Side note-he has a great relationship with his father, which is also why him and her get into as I guess she feels left out or something.
Our wedding is only going to be our parents and grandparents and now that she isn't coming he'll only have his dad and grandmother in attendance while I'll have my parents and both sets of grandparents. Should I wait it out and see if she sucks it up and shows up? Should I make some arrangements and extend the wedding to his siblings so he'll have more people in attendance? I don't feel like I should chase behind her trying to reach out and beg her to come, this isn't her day it's ours. Tbh if she really is going to be that childish and not support us on the happiest day of our lives I don't want her in my life or in any future child I have life.
