My fiancé and I received our invitations and I wanted to ask about the wording. Our stationer recommended we stick with the traditional route of “Mr. and Mrs. request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter” So, we didn’t include my fiancé’s parents names (which my fiancé was completely okay with).
My sister did hers the exact same way so I didn’t think anything of it, but I recently read about an instance where a fiancé’s mom being upset she wasn’t on the invitation, so now I’m a bit worried about her reaction when she sees them.
Two things that are worth mentioning -
-My parents are paying for the entire wedding. I completely understand hosting isn’t solely about the money aspect, but in this respect, my fiance’s parents chose the assumed, traditional role of ‘brides parent’s pay for the wedding’. My main issue here is that while my parents never expected them to pay for any of it, I think it would be considerate for fiance’s parents to acknowledge it/thank them for it, which never happened.
-Another thing is that his parents have been divorced for years, and I’m almost 100% certain his mom would have wanted his step father on the invitation as well – which I feel would have just complicated things.
Am I thinking about this too much? If she gets upset, how do I navigate that conversation? Thank you!