I don't want to go, of course. Our wedding is the end of July so I feel like going on a trip with my fiance's whole family will be like going on a honeymoon with them. Plus I don't want to pay for another trip. My fiance and I do not live together and we have spent maybe 4 nights together during the 5 years we have been together. I feel like there is a lot we still don't know about each other. Plus we will be moving into our house together right after we get married. They asked before but with a trip to Aruba. I expressed my feelings to my fiance and he agreed and told his family we won't be going. Today I went to dinner with them and they asked if we would go with them to Europe.
Like I can't even believe they asked again. I'm honestly really upset. I am seeing a pattern with this. They ask something and if it's turned down they will change things slightly and ask again. My MIL just did this with the wedding shower she wants to throw with her friends. We said no at first then a month later she changes some details and asks again. Most people on this forum said I should let my MIL throw the shower to make her happy. Should I also go on this trip?