My fiance asked me to marry him in July of 08. (We'd been dating for a year) He didn't have money to buy a ring at the time and I never needed one to "verify" his commitment to me. We kept it to ourselves because I hadn't met his parents yet. A month after the engagement I met his parents and the rest of his family. We still didn't announce it because his family had just met me so we thought we'd give it time. We announce our engagement at Christmas time. A few days later we hear his younger sister is engaged. Not too long after that we hear her wedding was happening 9 months later. We'd picked our wedding date but hadn't announced the date until later because we were waiting until 2010 to do it. Well here we are. A month after the SIL wedding, 4 months before ours, and guess what? SIL is pregnant with her first. Noone in my fiance's family has asked anything about our wedding plans, if we need anything, nothing. All the talk again is about the SIL. At this point we want to ELOPE.
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