Hi everyone, could use some advice. Fiance and I got in a big fight last night. We're getting married this weekend. In a nutshell he's a packrat and a procrastinator.
I've been bugging him for 8-9 months to go through his clutter. All of my family and friends have to travel long distance and for some this will likely be the only time they will see our house so I want it to be presentable and as neat as possible- but understanding that perfect will not happen. He has so much crap. I've already made concessions that at least one room in our basement will just be storage but getting him to clear the basement hallway of boxes, broken electronics, random kitchen stuff, etc last night turned into a huge fight. I'm pissed that it's all last minute. Guests are getting here Friday and there's still so much to do. He says that he's gotten rid of so much stuff so far and he truly has- I agree!- but there's still so much crap. He also underestimates how long things take to get done and there simply isn't enough time in the next few days. Between my job, appointments, last minute wedding stuff, and my own things to tidy up around the house I don't have time to do his stuff. He refused to start this months ago.
We're barely speaking this morning. I hoped I would be glowing with wedding bliss this week but quite frankly I'm annoyed. I hate to think that I'll feel this way on our wedding day and see it in our pictures for years to come.
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