Fights before wedding

What are you arguing about? Are you actually fighting or just snapping and cranking at each other?
The week before the wedding we were both pretty stressed and snapped at each other but after the wedding we went back to normal.

Yeah we are snapping at each other constantly and I’m so stressed and he’s totally calm about everything and I just need him to be more helpful but he wants to do everything at his on pace.

Pre wedding stress can be nuts and can for sure cause some tension between you guys. It sounds like you guys don’t normally fight like this so I wouldn’t take it as a sign of what’s to come as much as I would take it as things are just crazy right now.
My mom an I fought constantly weeks leading to the wedding and we notoriously never fight. It’s just a super stressful time.

Okay that makes me real a ton better thank you!

We get the same way sometimes. 5 weeks to go. He goes at his own pace too (slow,, one thing at a time) and my pace is more like...one thing after another, all at once, never stopping until it's all doneeeeee. And that stresses him out and he stresses me out lol. But it comes in phases and we're not normally like that. You guys will be good 😊

Oh man, we were tense the last month (our stress gave one of our cats two bladder infections! After $1K of tests vet determined “stress”). We had a fight two days before we had to drive to our DW, he said “maybe we shouldn’t get married.” 😢 Just remember you’re both stressed/emotional. Try not to snap or be sarcastic, “romantic” time might help! Maybe walks together at night. On wedding day... try to let end result go and just enjoooy! ❤️

When my FH and I get stressed and overwhelmed, we tend to snap and be grumpy with each other. Wedding planning is stressful. Once we realize the other person isn't being a jerk just for the sake of it, we knock it off and talk about it and what's really bothering USA.
Maybe you should both sit down and have a serious talk and explain that you need more help.

From what I’ve heard, this is totally normal so I wouldn’t take it as a sign unless you typically fight a lot!

Try to take a step back from wedding stuff, even just for one evening, and enjoy each other’s company. Wedding stress gets to everyone and it’s perfectly normal, but try to remind yourselves of why you’re doing this! Reread your vows to yourself too, if you have them. That can also bring you back to what’s important.

Totally normal. It stinks, but it's normal. We've been snapping over stupid stuff and then realize how ridiculous it actually is a few hours later. Take a step back from wedding stuff and hang out just the two of you with no wedding talk, you'd be shocked at how much it helps!

We were super snappy and bickered a ton. We've been married for about 4 weeks now and I can't think of a single thing we've bickered about. It gets better once the stress of the wedding day is behind you