Hello!
My long term partner & I are madly in love & have been best friends since childhood. We are discussing our options to marry. He is a Punjabi Indian Sikh, with a very wealthy and well known family while most of my Filipino family resides here in the US. Aside from our cultural differences, just planning the ceremony and reception is a struggle for us. His family had always dreamed of hosting a grand wedding in India ever since he was little, which had it not been for my family, I would've been completely okay with that. However, I had told him I wouldn't feel right having a wedding without my other relatives. Furthermore, I think he expects my family to travel to India for our Indian wedding as it is a bit unordinary not having the bride's family there. I do not know how my family will take this, as being in a foreign country they might be uncomfortable. My parents are a bit traditional & while they accept who I love, I'm sure they would be having a hard time going with what I want. Additionally, I don't know how well our families would bond with each other if placed in a setting where they would have to celebrate together. We as a couple are very liberal but it seems as if our families are not. Should we have a traditional Indian ceremony over there as well as a Catholic ceremony in the US? Which should I do first? There are so many obstacles and differences in our way we really do not know which direction to turn to. Any advice would be lovely. Thank you for your time!