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Lynnie
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Fill In The Blank: I wish I didn't have to invite _____

Lynnie, on March 19, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 121

Fill in the blank! Is there someone on your guest list you wish you didn't have to invite? A family friend your parents added, or a cousin who drives you crazy? Who would you cut from your guest list if you could?? Next Question: My favorite wedding detail so far is _____ Back to the Beginning:...

Fill in the blank! Is there someone on your guest list you wish you didn't have to invite? A family friend your parents added, or a cousin who drives you crazy? Who would you cut from your guest list if you could??


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Back to the Beginning: Fill In The Blank!

121 Comments

  • Lenae
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Lenae ·
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    People who ever doubted us lol
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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Abigail ·
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    My sister in law on my fiancé’s side, she’s rude
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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
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    People I've never met before but are our parent's friends....

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  • Ashlynn
    Beginner July 2019
    Ashlynn ·
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    His huge extended family - he only wants to invite them because his mom convinced him! He was guilted into putting them on our guest list...
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  • Maura
    Dedicated May 2019
    Maura ·
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    One of my FH's uncles. He's a recovering alcoholic (that we're pretty sure relapsed a week ago). Luckily, we got an rsvp decline because he couldn't afford the flight. I was going to have to ask my DOC to watch him all night if he came. My FH seems relieved that he's not coming too.

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  • Shari
    Beginner September 2020
    Shari ·
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    I don’t have an answer for that . We are having a small wedding 60 people tops so everyone that is invited deserves to be there .
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  • K
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Kelly ·
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    My Aunts and Uncles that I’ve never even met..
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  • Kaylee
    Beginner May 2019
    Kaylee ·
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    My cousin, I lived with her and her bratty son for 6ish months... towards the end of it I was getting a lot suicidal thoughts... my FH who was my boyfriend at the time, called into work one day and rented a uhaul trailer and brought me back home... I had already given her the rent I owed her for that month and when she found out that I left she messaged me asking if i could give her next months rent also, because her kids bday and Xmad were around the flipping corner!!! But because she is family we have to invite her 🤬🤬🤬🤬
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  • Kellie Martinez
    Super October 2019
    Kellie Martinez ·
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    I don't know if it's because I am not super traditional, but I don't feel like I HAVE to invite anyone so I love everyone I chose to invite.

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    Definitely good with our list as is

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    My future step-daughter. She's not a very nice or good person. She's all about causing drama

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  • Terra
    Expert September 2020
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    I've been pretty ruthless tbh, lol. If I don't want you there, you're not going, etiquette be damned. My awful aunt and one of her kids aren't getting invited, but the other two will be, and I could care less. It helps that neither of our families are trying to throw suggestions at us.

    One person I might not get away with keeping off the guest list is the best man's girlfriend. She was horrid to me a while back and nearly caused a huge fight, blocked me on Facebook from her AND her boyfriend's accounts, the whole nine yards. He unblocked me of course, but she's still sour about it. We haven't had to send out invites yet so I'm sure that's an argument for down the road, but honestly I'll end my grudge if she just unblocks me and apologizes. We'll see how that goes.

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  • C
    Just Said Yes August 2019
    Catherine ·
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    I am actually happy with my wedding list.. now. My FH and I decided we wanted something more intimate. We actually cut down our list in the middle of planning (6 months before) from about 200 to 85. So, we are very happy with who is coming. lol.

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  • Renee
    Super October 2020
    Renee ·
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    My mom. I know that sounds terrible but it's a long story and I have good reasons

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  • Tina
    Savvy May 2019
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    If we don't want them there they ain't coming
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  • Whitney
    Savvy September 2019
    Whitney ·
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    My FH family from Florida. He hasn't seen them in over 10 years and they don't speak at all. His mother is insisting on them being invited even though she doesn't think they will come. It would just make it easier not inviting them so I could have invited 7 other people.

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  • Maureen
    Dedicated March 2020
    Maureen ·
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    One of my cousin's wife who left him and then went back to him. She's snobby but he loves her so we all put up with it.

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  • Kyla
    Beginner September 2019
    Kyla ·
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    A few family members that I dont care for but I didnt want them to feel left out
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  • E
    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    No one. There are more I wish we could invite!
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  • Melissa
    Beginner September 2019
    Melissa ·
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    Doesn’t apply to us, we got the opportunity to invite everyone we wanted and then some.
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