Fill In The Blank: To be honest, I don't really care that much about _____

All of the little décor "essentials" like signs, or the guest book or card box. I bought discount basic items from a craft store and I am over it. they will serve their purpose and that is it.

Some small things like the girls hair, or matching shoes... I really don't care I want everyone to feel beautiful that day, but I am getting some back lash cause I am suppose to care I guess. As long as they are fresh, clean and look good I am ok with it.... But I guess we have to aim to please

The shoes! My fiance is my height so I am planning to wear my mom's wedding shoes that are flats and crocs for reception to be comfy! Spread the trend!

The garter toss. Going up my dress in front of 150 ppl makes us feel hella weird. Also flowers. My bouquet is gonna be real and the rest including centerpieces is gonna be fake. I don't have the energy to deal with some flowers I'll be throwing away anyway

My hair and makeup. I know I should care, but I mostly just wanna look like me on a regular day! I have zero interest in hair and makeup wedding day looks. I booked the first HMUA I found and was done with it.

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I second all of this.

A BIG WEDDING

Hashtags, extravagant decor or florals, what guests wear, most traditions, everything being perfect. I'm at the point where I look at everything and I'm like, "ehh, good enough" haha

Flowers! I only wanted one boquet for myself.

Garter/bouquet toss, flowers - ugh!!, matching dresses for my maids, what fiance wears as long as it's a nice suit, flowers again (this is my biggest I definitely DO NOT CARE), specific set playlist as long as my do not play songs are honored and specific songs for certain moments are played.

Some of the “Traditional” details.....no wedding favors, no vail, no garter.

Bridesmaid hair. I'm each her own, as long as they look neat I'm happy

Bridesmaids proposals, bouquet/ garter toss, and many signs.

Flowers and favors. We're doing our own flowers and not doing favors at all.

View Quoted Comment Take the box away 🤣 write someone else’s name on it. Just kidding.

If I don't remember it from my friends' weddings, I don't care.

Chairs, favors, bridesmaids shoes/accessories/hairstyles, lighting, linens, etc.

If those things are presented to me as a choice in something I'm already paying for, then maybe I'll care. If they are not, then it doesn't matter to me.

Traditional formalities - who walks with who, dances etc

FLOWERS! I couldn't care less if we had them, but my mom insisted

The cake. Not a fan.

To be honest, I don't really care that much about the bridal party, family, and guest's attire. I see a lot of other brides freaking out over how everyone looks and what they will be wearing, and I just don't find that area worth stressing over.