Fill In The Blank: To be honest, I don't really care that much about _____

The minute details

Flowers or color scheme. As long as they are in the ballpark, I don't even care

I care about everything, i want it to be perfect and something for everyone to remember and talk about for years to come

Hashtags, proposal gifts, garter toss, wedding favors, Seating charts, programs. The list goes on, but those are just the big ones.

Bridesmaids hair and shoes, and seating charts

About having alcohol at my wedding. I prefer it that way, some people just can not handle their alcohol.

Rehearsal Dinner... I really don’t think it’s necessary and it’s really difficult since it’s a destination wedding for most of the guests and wedding party, they’re getting there the day before and it just adds lots of stress to my already stressful life.

What guests wear

The cake or dessert

Seating charts! I mean let's be real, after dinner who really sticks to their assigned seating anyways?

The bouquet toss. Rather than tossing my beloved bouquet I care about and want to keep, I plan on praying with each young girl who attends my wedding.

I don’t care much about the shoes. As long as they are flat and comfortable I’m good

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I am the same with vows. My man and I are writing our own but only sharing them with each other when we are alone together that night.

Garter toss (kind of creepy), centerpieces (no one ever remembers them), cake cutting

Also... wedding websites. I do not care about them. At all.

Having a hashtag, having a website, doing a first look, having matching bridesmaid dress styles, what shoes the bridesmaids wear, having a symmetrical number of bridesmaids and groomsmen, "be my bridesmaid" gifts, the garter toss (we'll nix that and do an alternative bouquet toss), smearing cake on each other (like, ew), special entrances, and a doing a choreographed first dance. The list of things I don't really care about grows by the day, and I'm really fine with that

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Ceremony decorations, flowers, favors...

How many people actually show up, if anyone at all. We're both really excited about what our ceremony is turning into even though it's just immediate family (only allowed 10 guests on the beach we chose). If no one else decides to show up and party with us afterward, we'll be in Hawaii so there's plenty to do.

Videos from our wedding , I’m not worried about those