Fill In The Blank: To be honest, I don't really care that much about _____

The little details of weddings that rack up a bill real quick! We're trying to keep it simple and as informal as possible!

Im crazy about it all.

A seating chart. My fiancé wants to have one, but I don’t want to have to go through the troubles of it. 🙄

Dancing, at all. Ideally I'd like an outside reception in the beautiful sunshine, with good food and drinks and maybe some random activities. We won't be paying for a DJ.

I don't care that much on how I arrive to my wedding ceremony. I couldn't survive wedding planning without writing ever idea and thought as it comes to me. And Amazon is my best friend.

View Quoted Comment So I've read some horror stories about open seating! Originally I didn't think it was necessary, but you don't want all the tables to fill up and some lonely guest who doesn't know anyone else and didn't bring a plus one, sitting alone at one table. It would be terrible!

View Quoted Comment I can relate! I'm 32 and FH is 40, our social circle has gotten quite small since I turned 30. We don't go out as much an lost touch with drinking buddies and party friends. Then other friends have gotten married and moved away for jobs etc. I'm having my sister and my best girlfriend, he'll have his brother and his best guy friend. Clean and simple.

View Quoted Comment Me too! Except I plan to do flat sandals for both. I especially love the barefoot sandals!

Wedding cake that no one eats, favors that no one takes, and the garter/ bouquet toss🤷🏽‍♀️

I didn't care that much about having a DJ.

Wedding favors! I think they’re pointless

A big bridal party! I’m happy with my maid and matron of honor and niece and family friend as junior bridesmaids.

Most traditions really. I just want to have fun.

Wedding favors, ceremony flowers, menu cards, and our first dance song. The more we talk about it, the more I don't care about it anymore.

The DJ
we don’t dance! [shrug]

The flowers. My FH is handling flowers. As long as they aren't going to be over budget. I would prefer to have fake flowers, but that's a no-go with my FH. I told him only ceremony flowers could be real, any reception flowers had to be fake. I'm just not a fan of spending tons of money on flowers that will die.

I really don't care much about what shoes the bridesmaids wear, how they do their hair, the arrangement of the centerpieces, whether there are flowers in the bathroom. All of the little things!

The flowers (they're going to die in like two days)

The ceremony decor (it's a 30 minute ceremony...chill.)

This is going to sound horrible but...the wedding party pictures. (okay my bridesmaids are wonderful and all but I don't really need a ton of cute pictures of them laughing and holding their bouquets. I don't need a ton of pictures of the groomsmen mugging for the camera. Just give me a nice picture of me in my dress and me and my husband and LET ME BE!)

Having a bridal party

Having a wedding website