My FH’s parents just told him this week that they were only coming to our ceremony in 2 weeks and would not go to the reception. His dad cited COVID as his excuse, but we all know he’s just unsociable and an alcoholic. Since my FH has moved down here (granted the house is only an hour from his parents’), his mom has come to see him 2x and his dad only once.
Whenever I’ve been there and when FH has talked with them about the marriage/wedding before, the vocalize support and say they’re glad he’s found someone, but I’m bummed that they don’t actually show support. FH really wants to just tell them not to bother coming at all. I’m glad my family has completely accepted him and welcomed him in to give the love and support he’s not feeling from his own, but I also know it makes the lack of his family’s support feel stronger. It just sucks. And his sister who would really like to be there lives 10 hours away and her husband’s job won’t let him travel to our state unless he quarantined for 14 days afterwards.