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Kendra
Savvy July 2021

Final countdown

Kendra, on July 14, 2021 at 10:52 AM Posted in Planning 1 4

Ok, so were 9 days away now, and I am feeling WAAAAY more stress, panic and anxiety that I ever thought I would or wanted to feel. I threw together this 'low key' wedding together in 3 months and its now far from low key at all!!

I have had some help but I have this defect in me that I don't delegate well, so I take it all on myself and now I'm really feeling it and I don't want to but its pretty much all my own fault. I need to relax, take a breath and refocus on why were even doing this in the first place! Its amazing how off track you can get, even when you're aware that it happens and you try not to!

Any words of advice ladies? Help. Smiley xd

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on July 15, 2021 at 3:45 PM
  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Definitely take some time to yourself and RELAXXX lol. Your wedding day definitely will be hectic, you don't want to be burned out before the day even happens.

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  • Emilia
    Super June 2019
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    Hi ! Every married lady I talked to (myself included ;-) gives this one prescious piece of advice : you haveto DELEGATE ! ;-) Especially for THE day ! I made some lists to my friends, MOHs, and other people and they were really happy to be involved and "important" ! There's a lot of little things to supervise, bring, carry... we cannot do that by ourselves ! :-)

    So don't hesitate to ask for help... and now relax and be happy for the best day that is coming !

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  • Kendra
    Savvy July 2021
    Kendra ·
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    Yes, I know but apparently I'm a terrible control freak and I didn't realize how much! I was able to take some chill time yesterday and pull my crap together! On the road to doing better!

    Thanks for the kind words!

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Write down everything you have left to do into one mega checklist, and then try to schedule some self-care time!! ❤️

    7 Ways to Reduce Wedding-Planning Stress, from a Meditation Expert

    How to Be a Bride-ZEN-a

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