Finally figured out the perfect wedding night surprise for my FH. Might be TMI! Lol

Ohh and maybe by then I can get a glow in the dark ring haha...I know it sounds like I'm joking but sadly I'm serious.

Ummm... sounds fun I think... Im still in shock after reading this lol

To each their own! lol. Do what you know will please your FH!

I guess I am more surprised that he agreed to no sex for 2 months.

Why 2 months tho, I thought it was just 2 weeks with that piercing?

It's 3 weeks or at least that's what they told me last time and I healed really fast. But our hotel also has a water park and I don't want to go swimming while it's still that "fresh". This way I'll be completely healed and nothing with make it tear...which I've had happen and it's not fun lol. Oh and I was pretty shocked that he agreed to two months too! I told him we could do other things just not sex...but now it'll have to be strictly things to him so he doesn't find out about the piercing before the wedding. I not looking forward to the scar tissue though...

Haha go for it! But be sure to get it done as soon as you can beforehand.. Those are a doosy to have not heal right.

And @Cindy, are you wearing your nose piercing for your ceremony? I've heard mixed reviews from some people.. I really want to just wear mine, but some relatives are giving me the "tacky" talk. Haha.

Tacky? I don't think it is.l I normally wear a colored gem stud but for the wedding I bought a clear gem. I think nose piercings are so tiny most people won't even notice and if they do too bad! I say wear it!

I'm hoping you are talking about a clitoral hood piercing, not an actual clitoral piercing. The latter has a tendency to destroy nerves, leading to irreparable loss of sensation in that area.

Oh 2nd Bride no worries it's the hood.

I have wanted to do that for FW as well. But im so chicken to do it lol

Soon2Be Mrs. F it's not bad at all. My first time I was about to scream "Oh My God" I got out "Oh" and it was over with. Actually the only complaint I had was about a week later I was driving a truck through a construction area with VERY bumpy roads...and pain wasn't the complaint lol!

Maybe I will look into some places around my area and research them and go in and see if I can go thru with it lol

Take someone with you and just have them hold your hand and ask you a bunch of random questions...lol you'll be so focused on the other person you won't freak out as much.

All I have to say OOOOUUUUCCCCHHHHHHH :-)

Yeah I just cringed reading this post lol I'm so scared of piercings but whatever pleases your FH go for it!

Do It!!! I have had mine done for about 7 years, I didnt think it hurt a bit, my nipples hurt A LOT more (which I no longer have, they became more of an annoyance to me). FH loves the downstairs piercing. I think it wold be a great suprise!

Go for it. I also can't believe he is willing to wait. I keep asking FI if he could wait and he immediately starts teasing me and says that I couldn't. He's probably right.

Yeah.. doing the same with FH but he hasnt realized it yet.. We are going on 3 weeks.. and now i feel a cold coming on.. yay.. never thought I would be excited about a cold coming. Plus he should be getting his new passion party toy.. he is excited for it!

You are SO much braver than me! I'm a piercing lover but I can not do that one.